Diuen que una retirada a temps és una victòria. Jo no ho sé. Diria que una retirada a temps és... una retirada. T'adones que val més la pena aturar-te que no pas seguir. I t'atures. I et retires.
Cada cop que m'he retirat d'algun projecte, he tingut una doble sensació: m'he sentit covard, i m'he sentit valent. Covard per abandonar, per creure que no puc seguir, que estic fallant als del voltant, als que segueixen creient en el projecte. I Valent per prendre una decisió que costa de prendre, per adonar-me de que tinc límits, i per acceptar-los. Valent per triar.
Cada cop que m'he retirat d'algun projecte, ha estat perquè el "no puc" ha cridat molt fort, i me l'he escoltat. No sóc un superhome.
Algunes vegades, fent memòria dels projectes abandonats i dels projectes no abandonats, em pregunto: "ho vaig deixar massa d'hora?", "ho hauria d'haver deixat?" i hi ha dies que no trobo resposta.
Com us retireu, vosaltres? Ho voleu compartir?
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Is is said that a withdrawal on time is a victory. I don't know. I'd rather say that a withdrawal on time is... just a withdrawal. You feel it's worth to stop, better than keep following. And you stop. And you retreat.
Every time I quit from a project, I had a double sensation: I felt coward, and I felt brave. Coward for leaving,believing that I'm failing at around, those who still believe in the project. And brave for taking tough decisions, for realizing that I have limits, and for accepting them. I am brave when I choose.
Every time I quit form a project, it's been because I have heard the sentence "I can not". I'm not a superman.
Sometimes, thinking of past projects, either abandoned or not, I wonder: "did I quit too early?", "Should I have quit?", and sometimes I cannot find the answer.
How do you leave? Do you want to share?
Cada cop que m'he retirat d'algun projecte, he tingut una doble sensació: m'he sentit covard, i m'he sentit valent. Covard per abandonar, per creure que no puc seguir, que estic fallant als del voltant, als que segueixen creient en el projecte. I Valent per prendre una decisió que costa de prendre, per adonar-me de que tinc límits, i per acceptar-los. Valent per triar.
Cada cop que m'he retirat d'algun projecte, ha estat perquè el "no puc" ha cridat molt fort, i me l'he escoltat. No sóc un superhome.
Algunes vegades, fent memòria dels projectes abandonats i dels projectes no abandonats, em pregunto: "ho vaig deixar massa d'hora?", "ho hauria d'haver deixat?" i hi ha dies que no trobo resposta.
Com us retireu, vosaltres? Ho voleu compartir?
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Is is said that a withdrawal on time is a victory. I don't know. I'd rather say that a withdrawal on time is... just a withdrawal. You feel it's worth to stop, better than keep following. And you stop. And you retreat.
Every time I quit from a project, I had a double sensation: I felt coward, and I felt brave. Coward for leaving,believing that I'm failing at around, those who still believe in the project. And brave for taking tough decisions, for realizing that I have limits, and for accepting them. I am brave when I choose.
Every time I quit form a project, it's been because I have heard the sentence "I can not". I'm not a superman.
Sometimes, thinking of past projects, either abandoned or not, I wonder: "did I quit too early?", "Should I have quit?", and sometimes I cannot find the answer.
How do you leave? Do you want to share?
